Lube is often overlooked as a sexual aid, but it can actually enhance pleasure in many ways. Let's explore the main reasons and benefits of using a personal lubricant.
Firstly, lube feels amazing and can heighten sensation during sexual play and penetration. It provides a smooth and slippery surface, making everything more pleasurable.
Secondly, lubricant helps reduce friction during sex. Many individuals experience vaginal dryness, which can lead to painful intercourse, especially as they age. Lubricants help improve wetness, relieving discomfort and chafing.
Lastly, sexual lubricants add a fun element to play. There are flavored lubes for oral sex and sensation lubricants that tingle, warm, and cool to enhance sexual arousal. Some even mimic the appearance of ejaculate for those with specific fantasies.
Whether you're engaging in oral, anal, or vaginal sex (or using a sex toy during masturbation), lube can make everything wetter and more enjoyable.
For vaginal intercourse, here are some tips on how to use lube:
- Penis owners can apply a small amount of lube to the tip of their penis and slide it down the shaft to ease penetration.
- For vagina owners, apply a small dab of lubricant to the vulva, labia lips, opening of the vagina, and even inside the vagina.
- Use as much as you need, and if you feel you need more, add another dab.
- Water-based lubes may dry out more quickly, so you may need to apply more during intercourse.
- If using a condom, apply a small amount of lube inside the condom to reduce friction. Avoid using oil-based lubricants with condoms.